Shout out to aspec folks who took a while to figure out their identity even after comming across the right terms. The narrative of “I heard the word asexual/aromantic and it all just clicked for me” is very popular, but it’s not the exsperiance that everyone has. It’s okay if it took you a little more time and introspection to figure out the right labels, it doesn’t make you any less aspec.
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